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Our Story


I don't want to be cliche and say how lucky of a guy I am to have found Wei-Ling, so I won't. Frankly, I think both of us found an amazing stroke of good fortune. Great events in life can take turmoil and hard work to achieve, but every once in a while you come across one that just falls in your lap and all you have to do is embrace it.

The two of us finding and being with each other is just that; the good fortune of two souls finding and connecting with each other. Our relationship is just... natural. And as much as I could romanticize our times together, I couldn't ask for anything more than how natural things are for the two of us. Our days and time together feel right.


The story of Ben and Me starts with my next door (or next-complex, really) neighbor, Marcus. Yeah, really! Marcus and I got along instantly; we bonded over manga we read, and obsessively playing World of Warcraft. But something was very particular about Marcus: Many of his sentences often started with "My best friend Ben". My best friend Ben is super good at kung fu...My best friend Ben was my roommate at CMU for years...Check out this awesome photo of Ben being pranked while he's asleep! Hahaha.

Well, it would be a while before I met Marcus's awesome best friend Ben, but when I did, I instantly knew he really was that awesome. He was so laid back, adorable, and smart. And he was the best World of Warcraft player I knew. Yeah, really! We both took our time getting to know each other - first in-game, and then out of game, and then finally as a couple. Now that we are taking the next step to husband and wife, I expect absolutely nothing to change - and I couldn't be more thankful for that!

- Wei-Ling

Our wedding was held at

The Oceano Hotel and Spa

on August 17, 2013

Table of Contents

  • Our Wedding
    Our Wedding Photos
    Coming Soon

    Our wonderful wedding photos were taken by a very talented photographer friend of ours, Jeffrey Kuo Photography. We highly recommend him! Find him at!

  • Remy
    Jeremy Apollo Deckinga

    Photos of our first baby! Remy was born in November of 2014. Photos will be kept on our website, for family and friends. Gallery will be password protected - please contact us for a password.

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